I've been there too, 13 years ago. It was absolutely scary. My two guys came almost 7 weeks early. They were in the hospital for about 10 days then came home after they put on some weight. They had heart monitors on all the time. Sometimes the leads taped to their chests would come off and the alarm would sound in the middle of the night. It was the scariest thing in the world. What was scarier was after we got used to the false alarms and didn't take them as seriously. Never knew which time it might be for real. It was very stressful but we got through it and they ended up healthy. Our prayers are lifted for you, your wife and your two special new family members. You will make it!