ugh, I had a long response typed out and hit the wrong button ... short version ...

Call Wetsuit Wharehouse. They can answer your questions and point you to the suit for you in no time. They were great to work with when I bought my suit. Also had competitive prices.

http://www.wetsuitwearhouse.com/

My wife loves her Ronix and we have had great luck with our Hyperlite jackets. You should be able to find one a year or two old for the $60 range.

Places i usually check for gear: evogear, boardstop, waterskis, buywake, etc.